god the first time a diq gets in there is the worst feeling ever it's so big and painful and idek how people can lose their virginity to guys they don't love bc i was and still am very much in love with my bf and i still cried the first time he tried to stick his diq inside and it took many tries till i finally lost it. and it still hurt until about 2-3 months after that

the plus side is i really like it now :D