kpopsecretmeme2 ([personal profile] kpopsecretmeme2) wrote2014-09-20 07:43 am

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KPOP SECRET MEME 2 PART 130

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unanon allowed for picspamming only
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do whatever the hell else you want!

(Anonymous) 2014-09-30 02:52 pm (UTC)(link)
i don’t want to dictate how anyone live their lives and i understand that people’s sexuality “matures” (for lack of a better word i guess?) differently/at different ages like some earlier and some later but 13/14 is way too young for that!! especially for girls when we’ve been brought up to believe that sex is the only way we’ll get a boy to like us and to be accepted by everyone, it could be so dangerous and more often than not it harms us and our sense of worth.

i’m honestly speaking from experience here, when i was 14 i thought i was old enough to handle these things and i laughed at everyone who told me i was too naive and i wasn’t mature enough for it like what do they know? but i ended up being violated and used and it’s fucked me up and i’m still having trouble dealing with it to this day.

i’ve heard of one too many stories like this where boys take advantage of young girls or they condone this kind of behaviour from young girls like even accepting naked pictures from them.. it’s just disgusting because first of all what are you even doing with those pictures especially when you’re 18 years old you’re an adult! what are you doing getting nudes from underage girls and complimenting them i’m sorry but that makes you a creepy ass pedophile.



thoughts?

(Anonymous) 2014-09-30 03:12 pm (UTC)(link)
i do feel like most girls and guys aged 13-14 aren't usually emotionally (or sometimes even physically) mature enough for sex

and yeah, when they hook up with people older than them, even four-five years older, it is sketchy to me, bc of the power imbalance
if underagers are going to sexually experiment, i think it's better if it's with consenting peers their age

(Anonymous) 2014-09-30 03:27 pm (UTC)(link)
idk about other anons but i was def not ready to show other people my body at 13/14 let alone start having sex
age of consent here is 16 and i think that's pretty fair though - i know a few people who were happily having consensual sex at that age. i think it's important to remember that it's possible to be burnt by someone who is taking advantage of you at any age and that not everyone experiences sex the same way that you do
that being said i do think that access to technology that is represented in the media and pop culture as being explicitly tied to sex ie snapchat/webcams makes young people susceptible to another aspect peer pressure via the 'everyone else is doing it' culture that surrounds teen sex that didn't exist when i was 13/14

(Anonymous) 2014-09-30 03:51 pm (UTC)(link)
da and same - i was definitely not ready as a 13/14 year old for sex (i hadn't even gotten my period yet). i wasn't ready at 16 either tbh, but i figured it was bc i was a latebloomer and i'd be ready in a few years. i felt like the other 16 year olds who were having sex were just more mature than i was and had gone through more years of puberty, so. ig i was lucky in the sense that i wasn't surrounded by the sane kind of peer pressure to have sex that exists nowadays.

and yeah ia with your point that it's possible to be taken advantage of at any age (even adulthood).

(Anonymous) 2014-09-30 03:28 pm (UTC)(link)
in modern society, this kind of behavior from guys is disgusting. girls as young as 13/14/15 shouldn't be interacting sexually with /men/

(Anonymous) 2014-09-30 05:23 pm (UTC)(link)
+1