kpopsecretmeme2 ([personal profile] kpopsecretmeme2) wrote2014-09-20 07:43 am

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KPOP SECRET MEME 2 PART 130

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(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
anons one of my male flatmates hates me for some reason :( it's so horrible, i get on with everyone but i feel like he's always telling them how much he doesn't get on with me and they'll think im a bitch or something. it's hard to cope bc i feel like i can't tell anyone and im battling with depression as it is, it's so shit to end up with someone who is genuinely just an insensitive racist dick

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
*sry for the bawwing, had to let it out somewhere

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
i'm sorry anon :(
do you have to put up with him a lot?

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, it's weird, at first i thought it was just a joke and we got on really well but then he says he hates me, wants to kill me in my sleep, etc. like it is tongue in cheek but the sentiment is still there? and yeah we have the same friendship group and see each other every day :/ idk I shouldn't let it bother me but it's just the thought that everyone likes him more and they'll hate me too

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 03:34 am (UTC)(link)
wtf! :(
do you have any friends you trust so you can ask them to talk to him about it? not in a demanding manner, just asking what's up? maybe he doesn't realize that his humor is hurting you

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 03:37 am (UTC)(link)
yeah im going to talk to one of my other flatmates about it soon. idk, i used to get bullied really badly a few years ago and it's pathetic but it's just bringing back old memories :/ i just have no idea what's prompted it

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 03:57 am (UTC)(link)
anon from below and i think talking to one of your other flatmates is the way to go - surely there's someone who'd be sympathetic, or at least can tell him to fuck off

i was also bullied as a kid, and being bullied as an adult in any way is one of those things i always worry about :/

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 03:36 am (UTC)(link)
da but wtf - who says shit like "i want to kill you in your sleep" as a joke*? he sounds psychotic tbh

* esp between two strangers, like i could better understand it if it was between two siblings or smth, people who know each other well enough for dark humour

are you sure there's no one in your group of friends whom you could confide in? maybe you need different friends :/

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 03:43 am (UTC)(link)
yeah exactly, i thought we just had a bit going but he's always at me telling me to fuck off and calling me an ugly cunt even after i do things like share my food and drink with him, like wtf? it feels like it's only getting worse too.

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 03:56 am (UTC)(link)
wtf you must be a saint to be courteous and polite to him after the shit he's throwing at you - i'd have put rat poison in his coffee by now

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 04:00 am (UTC)(link)
ty for listening anon, i just feel so helpless rn :/ im also older than him so it just feels so pathetic to be so bothered about it, i think i'll have to confront the issue soon or it's just going to end up in a big mess

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 04:05 am (UTC)(link)
it's np anon, we're here for you - best of luck in all of this :(

(Anonymous) 2014-10-19 04:01 am (UTC)(link)
do u have the id channel in europe? cause sis people are fucking crazy, it's time to look for a new place to live